Why first love never dies, and genuine love never get out of style –
True love could be romantic, or not so adoring and tender, but realistic and sincere.
Valentine – Boy meets Girl. Boy and girl keep in touch, seriously, and not necessarily romantically, as they grow into likeness, and later into loving relationship and deep affection.
Life interludes and challenges comes in-between, and true lovers and genuinely affectionate couples marry this way.
Not every Val, of course.
But for those who do, and end up saying “I do”, it’s a lifetime experience of attachment and being there for each other through thick and thin.
Valentine Day is more about love,
about affection and genuine care with intimate concern,
and about dedication with commitment to the marriage vow;
Valentine celebrations will be meaningless if it’s all about sheer lust and porn.
Meeting – Chance or Design?
Donald was fourteen years old when he met Dianna at the wedding of Uncle Fred, the younger brother of Mr. Reinhardt, Donald’s father. Dianna McCarty was a girl of thirteen when she came across Donald in one of those Valentine Day’s wedding.
Was it a coincidence, or a friendship that was already written in the stars?
Anyhow, it did not take Donald so much gazing at the crystal ball to discover that the little girl sitting beside him inside the church was not just another girl across the street. He made full use of every opportunity to look her well in the eyes, touch her dress, held her palms, and force exchanges whenever the opportunity came.
However, little Diana did not make much out of all these. What else does a girl of thirteen cares about than to play, meet people, and get busy with her stuff and her little world?
How Love Grows
Though their rapport and exchanges at the august meeting encouraged Donald to start writing mails to the Diana, most of which were favorably replied, he was not bold enough to clearly declare his affection and love for her. He usually ends up around the topic, but never really got there.
At the peak of his deep feelings for her this year, Donald had become confused, and disinterested in his studies. How badly he wanted to see her, hold her and touch her. Yet she was so far away. His high school mates and friends noticed his terrible mood, but Donald would not share the truth with anyone.
He picked up the courage to write a special letter to his “girl” this time.
The letter got to Dianna late, in the midst of the end-of-the year examination.
Upon her reading the contents, she was equally confused and unsure of the message.
She went to Jane, a senior girl and close confidant of nineteen.
Jane explained to her that there is no problem having a male friend. “You just need to be careful, and take full control of the relationship, and never mess up with boys.” With experience and maturity, Dianna was guided into better understanding on how to play with boys without getting into trouble.
Donald graduated from high school, and was admitted to read polymer science at Cambridge University.
Two years later Dianna had become a medical student at Kettering University.
During the fall semester of his last year at Cambridge, Donald came home to visit his mum and brother, Steve. However, top on his mind was the thought of meeting Dianna, looking into her big blue eyes, and holding her tender hands.
Family is Key
As soon as she got wind of his plans, Dianna shared the news with her parents, and they did not hesitate to welcome Donald into their home.
The homecoming was great for Donald and his elder brother, Steve.
Steve read economics, and found a job as an investment banker at a Wall Street business firm after his graduation three years ago. The two young men were always a source of joy and inspiration to their mother, after the sudden death of Mr. Reinhardt two years ago.
“Would Donald be coming home to stay a while with me upon his graduation?” Mum asked Steve.
“I really don’t think so. He wants to start a project right away with one of his fellow undergraduate. It is a United Nations atomic energy project, and he would not want to miss the opportunity.”
After meal, that night, Donald informed her mother and brother about Dianna.
“She has been a good girl from a decent and well-respectable home. We hope to meet this Valentine after many years of telephone calls and emails.”
“Are you getting married so soon”, Steve interjected more out of jealousy, but also as a result of genuine concern for his younger brother and his immediate plans after college.
“Marriage is out of it! I met Dianna a long time ago during my last year in high school. We became friends, yet we never met since our first meeting. Both of us agree it’s time to see each other again after this long time.”
Steve and his mother remained silent, hoping to hear more later from Donald about this mystery girl. They were not disappointed.
“She wants to be a surgeon, studying at Kettering. I hope to meet her and parents next tomorrow. It is arranged that I drive with them to the Allegheny Beach. The two of us will drive behind her parents on the way to the beach but she would ride home with her folks, while I drive home alone carrying mum’s Tuareg Jeep.”
It was Donald’s great joy to get the approval of his mother and brother.
When Shall I See You Again?
Donald patted his mother on her cheeks, and gave Steve a warm handshake before driving off to see Diana.
Diana came out to welcome him at the front door. They shook hands, and he kissed her hand.
Donald was warmly received by The McCartys as Dianna introduced him as a friend and student of polymer science at Cambridge University.
The parents chatted with Donald, discussed about his mother and brother. The young man hit them as an intelligent youth and humble person. They felt sad he lost his father as a little boy. Mr. McCarty was particularly glad he was no longer a novice about polymer science and related subjects.
Meal was served, and Donald graciously declared that Mrs. McCarty was a great cook. They all took off for the beach after meal. Donald drove with Dianna in front, but they were closely followed by Mr. and Mrs. McCarty.
The two spoke of their plans after graduation from college. They discussed about job prospects and career pursuit, life choices, and life on campus.
Donald mustered great amount of effort to declare his long-held opinion to Diana. “If I could have my way, with a great douse of luck and the blessing of Heaven, I would say that it’s the greatest wish of my life to spend more time with you, holding your hands, touching your palms, and just keeping you company all my life.”
This was too much for Dianna to handle.
She blushed, looked away from the driver into the open field beside her as they drove along, and quickly changed the topic.
“I just cannot wait to get started as a licensed medic. It will be wonderful to have my internship at Kettering with their fantastic equipment and organizational structure”, she declared.
“I should probably be your first patient. Need to get my head checked really fast. Since I set my eyes on a smart girl with blue eyes from the McCarty clan my blood pressure has ever been on the rise, my affection growing deep, while my gaze has never wavered to any other, yet she avoids all attempts to get close to her.”
“Bet you need to see a psychoanalyst fast, and not a surgeon.”
“May I plead with all my love that you take me out to see one within your domain?”
Dianna busted into laughter, unable to continue with the lovely exchanges from this not-so-well-known and not-too-distant friend.
Loving Somebody, and Somebody Loves You Back
The beach was a great part of the meeting. Donald was able to touch, feel and hug Dianna. She was still immature, unexposed, and green, sort of.
She resisted all attempts by Donald to kiss, but had intimate hug and embraces from him.
He gave her a special card for Valentine, with a unique red rose from England.
Diana loved and appreciated the beautiful card with the red rose flower.
She felt the natural plant send the scent of English love all over her world and entire surroundings.
It was there and then that she really hugged and held him, with a promise to love him!!!
It was the first experience of such a close encounter for the two of them, but they were both aware they truly like and love each other.
They went back to her parents, shared a meal at a special eatery, took some ice-cream, and departed. It was indeed a day Donald, and Dianna in her very secretive mind, would always wanted to look up to.
As they drove out of his sight, Donald reminded himself that his first meeting with Dianna was casual, at a Valentine wedding. This meeting was real. He hoped for a very crucial meeting of the two of them at their own Valentine Day’s wedding.
Ides or Karma
On his way home from the beach, as he approached the bridge, Donald heard gun shots. He slowed down, turned off the road and waited to find out the position of things. Without thinking twice, he switched off the car engine, jumped out and locked up the car. He dashed into the nearby bush.
Five minutes later a car pulled up, and stopped right beside his jeep. A man pulled out of the grey saloon car, holding a pistol in his right hand. Donald could see him very well, as the man surveyed around the jeep, trying to open it. He couldn’t. He looked round, but could not see anyone. He waited to hear voices, but was disappointed he did not hear any voice.
This bearded man in thick mustache and a small sombrero yelled some command, “Lay him on this car, and leave him there to join the chorus in hell singing praises to the Devil!”
Within seconds, Donald saw two men brought out a blood-soaked man from one of their cars, and placed him on the bonnet of his jeep.
“Perfect. What a neat job! He would never try such a trick on me ever again. Jack, off we go. Keep the speed and maintain the track.”
As the leader shouted his command, the team entered their cars and zoomed off towards the road to Allegheny Beach.
Donald was too scared to speak, he was so confused to realize whether he was dreaming or seeing the scene in reality . The sight of the gun, the bloody dead body, and the criminal activities of the gang sickened him.
The young man waited where he was for a moment, then he pulled himself together, wanted to run, but remembered he left his telephone in the car. He took a quick survey of the environment, and decided to reach for his car. As he attempted to open the car door, take his phone and call 911, the police arrived.
A Price for Love
Donald was arrested and accused of robbery and murder. His mother got him an attorney, while Steve, his elder brother gave much moral support. Six months later he was convicted and placed on death row, awaiting execution.
It was very perplexing and highly frustrating to tell Diana about the story. The poor investigation made the matter worse.
His mother and brother were totally depressed but kept faith in God, praying to God for quick respite.
His friends and colleagues were distraught.
Dianna’s life was shattered, but she was strong. She stood with Donald throughout the trials. She vehemently believed that Donald was innocent. Her parents cursed the day they met the “brute young man”, and wondered why on Earth “such an armed robber and murderer” should cross their path.
When Love is True
Dianna prayed more regularly for divine intervention.
She implored God in the day, she prayed fervently at night. She had a strong faith. Many suitors and lovers came, seeking her hand in love or marriage, but she turned them all down flat. She was used to this chorus:
They say that love’s a gentle thing
But it’s only brought me pain
For the only man I ever loved
Has gone on the morning train
I never will marry
I’ll be no man’s wife
I expect to live single
All the days of my life
Well there’s many a change in the winter wind
And a change in the cloud’s design
There’s many a change in a young man’s heart
But never a change in mine
I never will marry
I’ll be no man’s wife
I expect to live single
All the days of my life. 1.
Prayer Seals Love
Six months after Donald’s sentencing, the Legal Council for Truth and Justice, a Non-Government Organization, took over his case, and enlisted it for re-trial.
Panoramic sketches of the scene of the crime were taken from Donald. A new Prosecutor was found who took time to do a thorough investigation and findings.
With the aid of forensic experts and fingerprint extracts, the hoodlums who committed the crimes were apprehended, tried and convicted.
“The state and Jury are sorry for the wrongful carriage of judgment during your first trial. You are hereby pronounced not guilty and free to live your life as you please”, the Jury declared.
Donald was freed. Ovations and accolades were poured on him from far and near. A lot of praises and recognition were accorded Diana for her faithfulness and true love, especially in times of trial and tribulations.
Donald completed his education at Cambridge, while Dianna was practicing as a surgeon. They got married on the lover’s day of St. Valentine, and settled down in England, living in a country home with plentiful English red roses.
Love suffereth long, and is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.” (1Co 13:4-7)
1. Traditional- arranged by Linda Ronstadt
© 1977 Normal Music (BMI).